We spent yesterday at Fred and Janet Corley’s Mt. Juliet Picnic.
If you’ve ever been to ‘Mayberry’ …than you know how great that this annual picnic is. The Corleys have done this for 15 years now…simply because they want to preserve the hometown tradition of neighbors getting together for fun and fellowship. Where everyone gets together and actually sits down together and visits with one another. There was a lot of great food…Volleyball began at 3 PM, with the winning team taking home some of Mr. Corley’s home grown blue ribbon Clover Honey!
Salute! to the Corleys for all of their time and effort putting this together each year. If you’re reading this…see you there next year! Everyone’s welcome!
We are really hoping to hear from the city this week about the building permit. In the mean time, I am out working, while Diane takes care in the feeding, treatments, schooling, feeding again, and general safety of the kids. She keeps trying to get around to the eating of ‘Bon-Bons’ and watching ‘Days of Our Lives’…but has not found the time in quite a while.
A little side note… I was at Home Depot and talking to Diane on the phone. She was here at home with the kids…Sean still had a PICC line in. ( the I.V. port that allowed us to administer antibiotics at home. The tube went into his arm, then up into an artery in his chest.)
Well as boys are inclined to do…Jeffrey and Sean got to wrestling and as I’m on the phone with Diane, she exclaims…Oh- …well we won’t go into that right now.
Sean comes to her with blood gushing out of the IV port. The boys knocked the end off of it in the midst of their play! ( light saber action )
In her panic, she hangs up! Then I said… Oh- well we won’t go into that right now.
I call back and she tells me that she can’t talk to me right now because she has 911 on the other line…and she HANGS UP AGAIN!
I call the home phone and Jeffrey answers. …’Jeffrey, do NOT hang up!’ ‘Tell me what is going on’… ‘Well, Sean and I were in the bedroom, and Sean was Yoda and I was Count Duku, and’…. ‘Jeffrey!’ ‘Tell me what is wrong with Sean!’ ‘We accidentally were playing, and when Sean turned around, well Katie was in the way, Grace was on the bed and…’ ‘JEFFREY!’ ‘Tell me!’ ‘Sean is bleeding out of his PICC line!’
‘Jeffrey, get a pair of surgical gloves and an alcohol swab from the medical supplies, and take to Mom! Tell her to put pressure on the tube to stop the bleeding.’
‘Dad, here’s Mom.’
I start to say…’Honey, you have to…’
Diane says…’ I’m pinching the tube to stop the bleeding!’ ‘An ambulance is on the way!’
She hung up again…
On my way home at an UnGodly speed, I am trying to figure out how to communicate to my wife that I am the one to keep on the phone…I am Daddy for Pete’s sake!… Father, Husband,…cave man, hunter, gatherer. Don’t hang up! Tell me! God has given me special info. in these situations. Just as He has given Mommies special info. in other situations. No, I’m not this insecure, but man! this one was rough. Yes she did great! But I was in the dark and not doing so great!
I’m ‘da man! I should be in the know! Come to me…ask me…tell me! ( are there any of you ladies saying right about now…
‘oh sure, Me, Me, Me!’
Well let me tell you…as I was thinking all of this while plowing down the road ( I beat the ambulance home )…I get an elbow to the ribs…God says to me…‘Yeah, see what that’s like, see how it feels?’ How many times do you take off running to put out a fire when all you need to do is stop and ask Me?
It was quite a lesson in things. Yes, we have two legs of our own and are capable of thinking on our own, yet sometimes we don’t know what to do right away and instead of turning to Him, we go off on a tangent….perhaps part of our worship experience with God, is when we immediately stop and totally depend on Him! ‘Be still and know…that I AM God”
The worship part is for God only, but a little adoration from her to me is good!
I have failed too many times in the past at being the one who knows what to do, Diane is witness to that, but God’s lesson was there for me just the same.
Sean is fine, Diane is through laughing at my manic behavior and my blood pressure is back to normal, the ambulance got there and they didn’t have anything to clamp it with. Sean came up with the idea to use one of the clamps from one of the medicines that we administered that day. Way to go Sean! I guess no matter how old you are, if it comes down to bleeding to death or coming up with a brilliant, creative idea…
Still trying to sell CDs, call radio stations (and any other media that might help spread the word,) get Taxes and other documents together for the Construction Loan process, continue our research in the specifics of making this house as safe for our kids as possible, and make sure that we are enjoying this ride with our kids. It is so easy to spend a few days or more working so hard in this cause for our kids…and then realize that we haven’t spent the time the right way with our kids.
Thanks again for checking on us! Oh, by the way, I have new songs recorded and looking forward to sharing them with you. Busy right now doing the vocals and getting the various other artists vocal parts done. This will be a duet record that some really great talent has agreed to be a part of to help us get this house done. Hoping to make this product as special as ‘The Work of a Carpenter’ is. These friends who are singing with me…I believe will help a great deal!
Stay Tuned!
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